Dealing With Paralysis Grieving Stages
The days, weeks and months after your spinal cord injury (SCI) are the most difficult. You may be dealing with physical pain, the loss of abilities, as well as the mental and emotional tolls that this type of injury can take as you struggle to make sense of what has happened to you. You may feel like you are losing important parts of your life and freedom if you’ve become paralyzed. You also may feel a swirl of feelings and emotions you can’t quite put into words: Anger because the situation that was beyond your control. You were obeying the law when the other driver ran a red light and hit you. Helplessness or uselessness because your injury has left you paralyzed or with a loss of sensory or motor functions. Frustration or depression because you are no longer as independent as you were before the accident; and perhaps because you can’t adequately express what you’re going through to family and friends. Hurt or feelings of emotional loss because your relationship with your ...